We are born for giving and for getting(receiving).
The way the Universe works is the more we give the more we get(receive).
If we are unable to forgive and forget, firstly ourselves and our deeds and then others and theirs, then we remain bleeding and weeping from the wounds of our pain.
When we can take apart our pain in layers, gently and purposefully removing the emotional wounds we find our freedom, compassion and peace. This is when forgiveness comes with ease; when we finally understand that unless we decide we are for giving we cannot decide we are for getting.
True forgiveness begets true forgetting. Simple ♥